HBPAHI on Family Tree Circles

KIA ORA WHANAU,KO CHARLES PAHI,IM 38,BORN AND BRED IN THE HAWKES BAY.
MY FATHER IS CHARLIE AND HIS FATHER IS AS WELL.
MY GRANDFATHER CHARLIE MARRIED MY NAN FROM MOTEO(NAPIER)TE RAUORIWA(NEE OLIVE RUIHI)WHO DIED 1968,MY DADS BRO PASSED(DUNDA PAHI) AWAY IN 1969.
MY NAN AND KORO HAD 4 KIDS,MAGERET,CHARLIE,RAMA,AND MY UNCLE DUNDA.
MY GANDFATHER LEFT MY AUNTY,UNCLE AND DAD AND MOVED TO TAUMARANUI,PASTAWAY IN THE 1980'S.
IM THE ELDEST,2 MORE BROTHERS AND A SISTER,I HAVE 3 TEENAGES,1 BOY N 2 GIRLS,MY BRO WADE HAS 2 GIRLS,1 BOY.TAMATI 1 GIRL N 1 BOY,MY SIS HAS 3 BOYS.
OUR DAD WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIS DAD,BUT I WANT TO KNOW WHO I AM,WHAT OUR MARAE IS CALLED,WEA MY KORO IS BURRIED,AND IF HE REMARRIED?,LEARN MY WHAKAPAPA.I KNOW MY MUMS SIDE (TAURIMA),IM NEEDING MY TRUE PAHI SIDE.
HOPING I GET SOME FEEDBACK,I WILL TRAVEL TO LEARN WHO US PAHI IN HAWKES BAY ARE..... MY CONTACTS 0275577076 OR 06 8451098