linda12345 on Family Tree Circles

Arthur Brumby Smith Born in south Yarra Melbourne on 10/5/1856 He married Elizabeth Haley and lived in benalla Victoria. His last child was born 1886 and his wife remarried in 1893 so he must have died between this time. I have two records for Arthur Smith dieing 1885 (and according to his probate died without relative. You would think with a small town like Benalla they would have known about the wife) The one in 1931 seems unlikely as the last child of Arthur was told her father was dead and he never came to see any of his children.
If any one could help with an actual death of Arthur I would be really grateful.
Linda

My ancestor came to New Zealand in the 1800s from sweden, but I have been unable to find is passage or entry note into NZ I am sure his name was carlsenbjorn or similar before he changed it to charles and he was born in stockholm. If there is anyone with information or suggestions I would be very grateful
Regards linda