BonnieLeeD on Family Tree Circles

I am looking for information on Caleb Shirley b. 1788 married Phoebe Gibbons 3/25/1819. I am certain he was not the Caleb Shirley that was killed 10/8/1864. Phoebe died in 1861.
I would like to know when, where and how he died and his burial place.