Benjamin Seeley Seely of New York

The only information that I know about this Benjamin Seeley (Seely) is that he was born in New York about 1836 and disappeared after 1861. He was married to Juliana Thorp who was born in New York about 1836 and died June 1870. She is buried in the South Ripley Cemetery, South Ripley, NY. They are listed in the 1860 NY Census as living in NY. Their first son Adelbert was born in IL and their other two children (Horace Cadmen and Eugene Elmer) were born in NY. By the 1865 NY Census, Juliana and her children are listed as living with her parents.