Looking for Stender Descendents B Germany Immigrated to Iowa

Johann F. "Ernest" Stender, b. Neumuenster, Holstein, Germany,1823
d. 1908 in Iowa
m. Anna Starholtz before 1848 in Germany
b. Neumuenster, Holstein, Germany, 1821
d. 1886 in Iowa
Children:
1. Maria ("Mary")Stender b. 1848 in Holstein,
m. in Iowa: Henry Hager, then Jurgen Stamp, 5 children
2. Heinrich("Henry") Stender b. 1850, Schleswig-Holstein, Germany
m. Helene Goettsch, b. 1837, Holstein, Germany
d. 1917 Nebraska
Children: a. Edward Heinrich Stender, b. 1875 in Iowa
b. Hertha Maria ("Hattie"), b. 1877 in Iowa
3. Catherine("Kate")Stender b. 1850/1852 in Germany
d. 1925
m. 1870 to John F. Paulsen, b. 1838 in Schleswig, Germany
d. 1902
Children: a. John, b. George, c. Amelia, d. Mary, e. Hans,
f. Otto, g. Minnie
4. Hans "Frederick" Stender
5. Emma Stender
b. 1861, Holstein, Germany
m. in Minden, Iowa: William Kay
Children: a. Gustave F., b. Rudolph J., c. Ella, d. Alvina,
e. Julia, f. Fritz W. ("Fred"), g. Minnie,
h. Alvera, i. Lillie b. 1893